"The right light" was probably the wrong phrase, and I apologise to her for that. Having said that, it does help if it's a bit dark, I suppose. And if I haven't got my reading glasses on. And maybe after a beer or two.
I once told a barmaid "You look more lovely with every drink", and she scowled at me.
I am surprised you are still alive.
Far less intestate! Hang on...that's not the word, is it...erm...