Now this is going to take up too much time if you all are going to be wanting two birthdays...
26 July - the birthday of self-assurance
charming and strong with unshakable belief in themselves. Offer opinions as fact. Dominant personalities. air of authority and experience that others respect and admire. Don't lie or speculate widely. incredible moments of insight that can be reflected in a humorous outlook that expresses profound wisdom. Others put them on a pedestal and they are happy to sit there. Can become isolated.
ON THE DARK SIDE: over-confident, tactless, uncompromising
AT YOUR BEST: honest, authoritative, confident
Your greatest challenge is...not being over-confident
The way forward is...to understand that for self-confidence to work it needs to be appealing, not overpowering. People need to feel motivated by you, not cornered or embarrassed.