Results would help if I tilted the laptop screen at a better angle.
Your Existing Situation
"Is a little on the lazy side when it comes to putting forth a lot of effort[certainly am at the moment]. Needs to build roots and have a peaceful, loving partner.[Tell that to the wife of 33 years!]"
Your Stress Sources
"Seeks freedom and the chance to do as he wishes[so long as someone pays me]; avoids restrictions or things that try to hold him back[that's why they arm us]. Feels an intense amount of pressure being put on him and would like a chance to escape in order to do the things he wants and needs to do for himself.[Soo true - retiring next year.] However, he lacks the determination and motivation to escape and pursue his own personal gains.[ouch! Have yet to sort out retirement plans. Anyone got a job?]"
Your Restrained Characteristics
Current situations force him into compromise and placing his own hopes and desires on hold for the time being.[True]
"Believes his hopes and dreams are realistic, but needs reassurance from others.[Where's the person offering me an exorbitant salary for minimum effort - other than as a Banker (is that a mispelling!)] Has strict standards when looking for a partner [Did that 34 years ago - female, gorgeous and available. Oh, and said yes.]and wants guarantees that he will not be disappointed or lose.[Haven't complained so far]"
Your Desired Objective
"Is very intense person who seeks excitement and sexual stimulation[No Comment!]. Wants others to see him as an exciting and interesting person, who is also charming and can easily influence others. Uses his charm to increase his chances of success and gain other people's trust.[I would not make a good car salesman though]"
Your Actual Problem
"Feeling tension and stress brought on by situations which are out of his control,[surely this applies to everyone with a pulse?] leaves him feeling helpless, anxious, and in adequate. He escapes the situation by throwing himself into new activities and insisting he get his own way[Remember the 'arm' issue]. Appears to be in control of himself, which he isn't, leading to outbursts of anger.[I SO AM IN CONTROL, I think?]"
Your Actual Problem #2
"Fights resistance or limitations, and insists he is free to develop in his own way. Rewarded by accomplishing things on his own, with little to no help from others."[That's me, I think?]
